Raksha BandhanYour child and the Handmade Rakhi
↗The shop rakhis are shiny, but for Raksha Bandhan Your child wants to make one. Beads roll under the sofa, glue sticks to fingers, and the first three attempts look like squashed spiders. The fourth has a felt sun and a wobbly tassel. When it is tied on, the brother says it is the best rakhi he has ever had, and he keeps it on his wrist until it frays.
Lesson: Things made by hand carry the most love
Raksha BandhanYour child and the Rakhi by Post
↗This year the cousin who always gets Your child's rakhi is far away in another city. Your child writes a letter, tucks in the rakhi and a strip of paper that says "tie it yourself and I will be there", and posts it. On Raksha Bandhan the phone rings: the cousin is wearing it, and the two of them eat sweets together over the video call.
Lesson: Love travels any distance
Raksha BandhanYour child and the Promise Thread
↗On Raksha Bandhan Nani explains that a rakhi is really a promise: to look after each other. That afternoon Your child's sibling is scared of the neighbour's noisy dog. Your child takes a deep breath, holds the sibling's hand, and walks past slowly, talking about laddoos the whole way. The dog only wags. The thread on Your child's wrist suddenly feels very important.
Lesson: Looking after each other is the real festival
Raksha BandhanYour child and the Rakhi for the Tree
↗Your child has no brother or sister, and every cousin is busy tying rakhis. Nani says a rakhi is a promise to protect, and a promise can go to anyone. Your child ties a red thread around the old neem tree in the courtyard, the one that shades the whole house, and promises to water it every evening. All summer the neem stays green, and Nani says it has never looked happier.
Lesson: Protection is a promise you can make to anything you love
Raksha BandhanYour child and the Rakhi That Arrived Late
↗Didi is studying in a hostel far away and her rakhi has not arrived by post. Your child's wrist is bare on Raksha Bandhan morning while all the cousins show off theirs. Instead of moping, Your child calls Didi on video, and she ties a rakhi onto her own wrist while Your child ties a matching thread on the phone. The real one arrives on Tuesday, and Your child wears both.
Lesson: Distance cannot untie a promise
Raksha BandhanYour child and the Brother Who Was Not a Brother
↗Rohan from the flat upstairs has no sister, and on Raksha Bandhan he watches everyone else from the stairs. Your child notices, runs home for a spare rakhi and a laddoo, and ties it on his wrist right there on the landing. Rohan does not know what to say, so he promises to always save Your child a seat on the school bus. He keeps that promise all year.
Lesson: A promise of care can make a sibling out of a neighbour
Raksha BandhanYour child and the Queen's Thread
↗Dadaji tells Your child the tale of a queen who sent a rakhi to a distant emperor, and how he rode across the land to help her when trouble came. That afternoon Your child's little brother is stuck at the top of the climbing frame, too scared to come down. Everyone laughs. Your child, wearing the rakhi he tied that morning, climbs up and talks him down one bar at a time.
Lesson: A rakhi is a promise you keep when it counts
Raksha BandhanYour child and the Rakhi Thali Race
↗Five cousins, one thali, and Bhaiya is about to leave for his train. Everyone grabs at the diya and the rice at once and the thali nearly tips. Your child takes charge: 'Youngest first, oldest last,' and holds the thali steady while each cousin does the tilak, the sweet and the rakhi. Bhaiya makes the train with five rakhis on one wrist and a laddoo in each hand.
Lesson: Order and patience save a rushed moment from falling apart
Raksha BandhanYour child and the Soldier's Rakhi
↗The school is sending rakhis to soldiers who will spend the festival far from home. Most children buy shiny ones from the shop. Your child makes one by hand from cotton thread and a tiny painted sun, and writes a letter about the mango tree and the lane cricket match. Months later a card arrives from a mountain post, saying the little sun is tied to a soldier's water bottle.
Lesson: A gift made with your own hands travels furthest
Raksha BandhanYour child and the Promise to the Little Sister
↗This is the first Raksha Bandhan with the new baby sister, and she cannot hold a rakhi yet. Mummy ties one on Your child's wrist on her behalf. Your child takes the promise very seriously: for the whole day, every time the baby cries, Your child is there first with a rattle, a song or a silly face. By night, Your child is exhausted and prouder than ever.
Lesson: Big promises start with small, tired, loving days
Raksha BandhanYour child and the Sweet That Was Saved
↗The kaju katli box is open for Raksha Bandhan and Your child loves it more than anything. Bhaiya is late from cricket, and all the cousins are eating. By the time the box reaches Your child there is one piece left. Your child wraps it in a napkin and keeps it in a pocket all afternoon. When Bhaiya finally arrives, sweaty and hungry, that piece is the only one left in the house.
Lesson: Saving the last piece for someone is the sweetest gift
Raksha BandhanYour child and the Rakhi Made of Seeds
↗Nani says the old rakhis were made of thread and flowers, not plastic. Your child makes one from cotton thread and glues a few tulsi and marigold seeds into the centre. After the festival, instead of throwing it away, Your child plants the rakhi in a pot. By Diwali there are marigolds on the windowsill, and Bhaiya says it is the only rakhi that ever grew.
Lesson: Make things that give back to the earth
Raksha BandhanYour child and the Fight Before the Rakhi
↗Your child and Bhaiya have had the biggest fight of the year over a broken remote-control car, and now it is Raksha Bandhan morning and neither will look at the other. Mummy leaves the thali on the table and walks away. Your child picks it up, walks over, and says, 'I will still protect you, even if you are annoying.' Bhaiya laughs so hard the tilak goes crooked.
Lesson: Love does not wait for the argument to be over
Raksha BandhanYour child and the Rakhi for the Guard Dog
↗Sheru the building's guard dog barks at every stranger and walks Your child to the gate every school morning. On Raksha Bandhan, Your child decides Sheru has earned a rakhi too. The security uncle laughs, but Sheru sits perfectly still while the thread goes on his collar, and eats his laddoo in one bite. From then on, Sheru waits at the gate a little longer each morning.
Lesson: The ones who protect you deserve a thank you too
Raksha BandhanYour child and the Empty Rakhi Shop
↗It is the evening before Raksha Bandhan and every shop in the market has sold out of rakhis. Your child needs six for six cousins. Back home, Your child raids Mummy's sewing box: red thread, a few beads, a little sequin from an old dupatta each. The six rakhis are all different and slightly lumpy. The cousins argue over who got the best one and refuse to swap.
Lesson: When the shops are empty, your hands are not