Ram Navami
Your child and the Little Bow
Your child and the Little Bow
For Ram Navami, Your child makes a bow from a bent stick and a piece of string. Dadaji tells how Rama kept every promise, even when it was hard. That afternoon Your child promised to share the swing with a younger cousin and, though it hurts to wait, keeps the promise. The cousin shouts that Your child is just like Rama, and the bow feels a little grander.
Lesson: A promise kept makes you strong
Ram Navami
Your child and the Squirrel of the Bridge
Your child and the Squirrel of the Bridge
Nani tells the story of the little squirrel who carried pebbles to help build Rama's bridge, and how Rama stroked its back in thanks. On Ram Navami, Your child's school is planting trees and Your child is the smallest one there. Carrying one seedling at a time, Your child plants more than anyone, and the teacher says the squirrel would be proud.
Lesson: Small helpers make big things possible
Ram Navami
Your child and the Ayodhya Procession
Your child and the Ayodhya Procession
The Ram Navami procession winds through the town with drums, flags and a decorated chariot. Your child loses hold of Papa's hand in the crowd and feels a wobble of panic. Remembering Papa's rule, Your child stands still beside the sweet stall and waits. Two minutes later Papa appears, and Your child gets a jalebi for being sensible.
Lesson: When you are lost, stay calm and stay put
Ram Navami
Your child and the Cradle of Baby Rama
Your child and the Cradle of Baby Rama
At the temple on Ram Navami, a tiny cradle holds baby Rama and every child wants a turn to rock it. The queue is long and pushing starts. Your child steps aside and offers to count so each child gets exactly ten gentle rocks. The pushing stops, the bell chimes softly with every swing, and the priest lets Your child have the last turn of all.
Lesson: Fair turns make the sweetest celebrations
Ram Navami
Your child and the Panakam Stall
Your child and the Panakam Stall
It is a blazing Ram Navami afternoon and Amma has set up a stall of cool jaggery panakam outside the house for everyone walking to the temple. Your child is the server. A boy in torn clothes hangs back, sure it costs money. Your child walks over with two glasses, one for him and one for Your child, and they drink together on the step, watching the procession go by.
Lesson: Sweet water is for everyone who is thirsty
Ram Navami
Your child and the Bow That Would Not Bend
Your child and the Bow That Would Not Bend
Nani tells how Rama, at Sita's swayamvar, lifted the great bow of Shiva that no prince could even move. At the Ram Navami fair there is a game with a stiff bow and a target. The bigger children pull hard and fail. Your child watches, then braces a foot, breathes out slowly and draws smoothly instead of yanking. The arrow thuds into the straw target and the fair-man hands over a sugar horse.
Lesson: Strength is steady, not sudden
Ram Navami
Your child and the Shabari Berries
Your child and the Shabari Berries
Dadaji tells Your child about old Shabari, who tasted every berry before offering it so Rama would only get sweet ones. That afternoon Your child is asked to pick guavas for the Ram Navami prasad. Every fruit gets a tiny nibble test, and the sour ones are set aside for the goats. The priest laughs at the neat pile of half-moon bites and says Rama would have been pleased.
Lesson: Give only your best and check it with care
Ram Navami
Your child and the Golden Deer
Your child and the Golden Deer
In the Ram Navami play, a glittering golden deer trots across the stage and everyone gasps, until it turns out to be a trick. Your child plays Lakshman and has the line 'Not everything shiny is true.' The next day a stranger at the gate offers Your child a free shiny toy in exchange for opening the door. Your child remembers the deer, says no politely, and calls Mummy.
Lesson: Not everything shiny is true; check before you follow
Ram Navami
Your child and the Boat of Kevat
Your child and the Boat of Kevat
Kevat the boatman refused Rama's ring as payment and asked only for a blessing, Nani says. On Ram Navami, Your child spends the morning helping the old flower-seller carry baskets to the temple gate. She tries to press a coin into Your child's palm. Your child closes her fingers back over it and asks instead for one marigold to tuck behind the ear.
Lesson: Some help is not for sale
Ram Navami
Your child and the Ayodhya of Clay
Your child and the Ayodhya of Clay
For the Ram Navami exhibition, Your child's class is building Ayodhya from clay, with a palace, a river and little lamps. On the last day a monkey from the mango tree knocks the palace flat. The others give up. Your child gathers the pieces, says Ayodhya was rebuilt after fourteen years too, and the whole class rebuilds it in an hour, this time with a clay monkey on the wall.
Lesson: What falls down can be built again, and better
Ram Navami
Your child and the Name on Every Stone
Your child and the Name on Every Stone
The monkeys wrote Rama's name on stones and they floated, Dadi says, which is why the bridge held. On Ram Navami Your child is asked to lead the smaller cousins in the temple chant but they keep giggling and wandering off. Your child hands each one a pebble and a chalk to write 'Rama' on it, and suddenly six quiet cousins are sitting in a row, chanting as they write.
Lesson: Give little hands a job and little minds will follow
Ram Navami
Your child and the Birthday of Two Heroes
Your child and the Birthday of Two Heroes
Your child's birthday falls on Ram Navami and everyone is at the temple instead of the party. Your child sulks, until Papa says Rama is a big brother to every child born today. So Your child carries the birthday cake to the temple steps and shares it with the whole queue, and a hundred strangers sing happy birthday to Rama and Your child together.
Lesson: Sharing your special day makes it twice as special
Ram Navami
Your child and the Fourteen-Year Promise
Your child and the Fourteen-Year Promise
Bharata kept Rama's sandals on the throne for fourteen years and never once sat on it, Nana explains at the Ram Navami reading. Your child has been asked to keep a friend's cricket bat safe for the whole summer holiday. Every day the bat sits by the door, and every day Your child resists using it, even during the lane's big match. When the friend returns, the bat has not one new scratch.
Lesson: Looking after something is not the same as owning it
Ram Navami
Your child and the Lost Temple Slipper
Your child and the Lost Temple Slipper
After the Ram Navami aarti, hundreds of slippers lie in a heap outside the temple and Nani's left chappal is missing. Nani is upset; those were her walking chappals. Your child refuses to give up, sorts the pile slowly by colour and size, and at the very bottom finds it, chewed slightly by a temple goat. Nani laughs so hard she forgets to be cross.
Lesson: Slow, careful searching finds what hurry cannot
Ram Navami
Your child and the Rath Yatra of Rama
Your child and the Rath Yatra of Rama
The Ram Navami chariot is heavy and the rope is long, and Your child is placed right at the back where nobody notices. Halfway through the lane, the front pullers stop to argue about direction. Your child keeps pulling steadily and calls out, 'Left at the peepal tree!' The chariot glides on, and the drummer moves Your child to the front for the last stretch.
Lesson: Keep pulling and keep helping, even from the back