Fear of the DarkYour child and the Power Cut
↗The lights go out in the middle of dinner and the whole colony turns black at once. Your child freezes with a spoon halfway up. Dadi does not fuss. She lights two candles from the puja shelf and stands them on the table. 'Now,' she says, 'this is not a power cut. This is a candle dinner, and only very rich people have those.' They finish the dal by candlelight, slowly, like kings.
Lesson: A power cut is only a candle dinner with a bad name
Fear of the DarkYour child and the Torch Adventure
↗Papa comes home with a small yellow torch and says it belongs to Your child now. Then he switches off the corridor light. 'Every dark thing gets one look,' he says. The beam finds the shoe rack, the water filter, the curtain and the umbrella hooked on a nail, and each one turns back into itself. By the end of the corridor Your child is leading and Papa is being told what everything is.
Lesson: Shine a light on it once and it goes back to being itself
Fear of the DarkYour child and the Shadows on the Wall
↗There is a shape on the bedroom wall at night that looks exactly like a long arm and Your child will not look at it. Bhaiya switches on the table lamp, puts both hands in front of it and makes a dog, a bird, and a rabbit that eats the dog. Then he shows Your child how. They fill the wall with animals for half an hour, and after that the long arm is only a shape.
Lesson: Shadows do whatever your hands tell them to
Fear of the DarkYour child and the Walk to the Bathroom
↗The bathroom is eleven steps down the corridor and at night it may as well be a kilometre. Mumma counts the steps with Your child in the daytime, twice, so the feet learn the way properly. That night Your child goes alone, whispering the numbers, one to eleven and back again. The whispering leaves no room for anything else. From the third night onwards the counting is not even needed.
Lesson: Count the steps and your feet stop being afraid
Fear of the DarkYour child and the Sounds of the Night
↗At Nani's village house the night is loud. Something creaks, something scratches, and something calls in a long low voice. Your child sits up rigid. Nani listens with her eyes shut and names them one by one. The neem branch. The cat on the tin roof. An owl behind the well. 'They were all here in the daytime too,' she says. Named, the sounds turn into neighbours and Your child lies back down.
Lesson: Give the night sounds their names and they become neighbours
Fear of the DarkYour child and the Monsoon Night
↗The first big monsoon night knocks the power out and the rain hammers the roof so hard that nobody can hear anybody else. Your child is right under the blanket. Mumma comes in with the emergency lamp and sits on the bed. 'Listen properly,' she says. 'It is only water. Water in a hurry.' They listen together to water in a hurry until it slows, and the last sound heard is a drip.
Lesson: It is only water in a hurry
Fear of the DarkYour child and the Terrace Camp
↗Chacha announces a terrace camp with two bedsheets and four bricks, and it is all wonderful until the colony lights go off one by one. Your child shuffles closer. Chacha lies back and says, 'The dark is what lets you see the far things.' He points out three stars, then the moving light of a plane, then a satellite. Your child finds two more satellites and forgets entirely to be scared.
Lesson: The dark is what lets you see the far things
Fear of the DarkYour child and the Cupboard That Creaked
↗Every night the old wooden cupboard opens itself a little way and creaks, and Your child is quite certain about what lives in there. Mumma does not laugh. At ten at night she opens both doors wide and they look together at all of it. Blankets. The suitcase. An old cricket bat. A steel trunk. Then Papa oils the hinge. The cupboard still creaks sometimes, but now Your child knows the whole list.
Lesson: Look inside together and make a list you can trust
Fear of the DarkYour child and the Tunnel on the Train
↗The train goes into a tunnel and everything turns black at once, the lights, the fields and everybody. Your child grabs Didi's arm hard. Didi says, 'Count out loud. We come out at the end.' Seven, eight, nine, and there is the green world again, bright as anything. There are eleven tunnels on that line, and by the ninth Your child is counting aloud for the aunty across the aisle.
Lesson: Count in the tunnel because tunnels always end
Fear of the DarkYour child and the Torch Under the Blanket
↗Bedtime is at nine but the story is at a very good bit, so Your child takes the torch under the blanket and carries on reading. It becomes a warm little orange room with only Your child inside it. Didi finds out and, instead of telling, climbs in with her own book. After that the dark is not a thing to get through. It is what makes the little orange room possible.
Lesson: The dark is what makes a torch worth having
Fear of the DarkYour child and the Shape on the Door
↗There is a tall figure on the back of the bedroom door and it has been standing there every night this week. Your child finally shouts. Papa comes running, switches on the light, and there it is. His own office shirt on a hanger with a belt looped over the shoulders. Papa laughs so hard that he has to sit down, and after that the shirt sleeps in the cupboard every night.
Lesson: Most tall shadows turn out to be somebody's shirt
Fear of the DarkYour child and the Diya in the Corridor
↗On Diwali night the inverter dies and the flat goes dark exactly as the guests arrive, and Your child's hands go cold. Bua puts a clay diya into each of them and says, 'You are in charge of the corridor.' Your child sets them along the whole passage, one every two tiles, and lights each from a big one. The corridor turns gold, and the guests call it the best lit house in the building.
Lesson: You can be the one who brings the light
Fear of the DarkYour child and the Lantern Walk in the Village
↗Nana has to carry medicine to a neighbour and the village lane has no streetlights at all. He hands Your child the lantern. 'You take it. The one with the light walks in front.' The lane turns out to be full of nothing much, a buffalo, a sleeping dog and a heap of firewood. Your child leads the whole way there, and coming back does not even glance behind once.
Lesson: The one who carries the light walks in front
Fear of the DarkYour child Lends the Torch to Chhotu
↗Little cousin Chhotu will not go to the bathroom at Dadi's house at night. Your child, who solved this exact problem last year, hands over the yellow torch. 'It is eleven steps,' Your child says. 'Count them. I will stand at this end.' Chhotu counts them out loud, wobbly all the way, and comes back grinning like a hero. Handing the torch back he says, 'You keep it. I have got the counting now.'
Lesson: Once you know the trick you can lend it to somebody smaller
Fear of the DarkYour child and the Room That Was the Same Room
↗Papa plays a game before lights out. 'Tell me everything in this room.' Your child lists the bed, the table, the fan, the chair with clothes piled on it, the picture of the mountains and the crack shaped like a fish. Then the light goes off. 'All still there?' asks Papa. Your child checks each one in the head. The bed. The table. The fan. Nothing has moved. The dark changes nothing.
Lesson: The dark room is the same room with the light off
Fear of the DarkToy Shop After Dark
↗When the toy shop lights blink off for the night, the toys stretch and come alive, sweeping Your child into their secret midnight world. Helping a lost little toy find the way back to its cozy shelf, Your child tiptoes past wind-up races and music-box magic. Together they learn that everyone, big or small, deserves a warm place to belong.
Lesson: Old things have value worth preserving, helping others brings joy.
Fear of the DarkMuseum Night
↗When the lights blink off, Your child is gently locked inside the museum overnight and gasps as the exhibits stretch awake! A dinosaur skeleton has a wobbly toothache, an Egyptian mummy misses home, and a knight's shiny armor has gone a bit rusty. Kindly helping each one, Your child learns that history comes wonderfully alive when we care about the real stories hidden behind everything we see.
Lesson: Curiosity opens doors to wonder, history and art are alive with stories waiting to be discovered, different cultures all contribute to human greatness, and there's magic in looking deeper at ordinary things.